CONFIDENCE IS A GAME CHANGER

Do you want to increase your confidence? Do you want to stop doubting yourself? Do you know that increasing confidence brings unbelievable peace and happiness? Listed below are just 4 ways increasing confidence is a game changer.

Are you in it, to win it?

You Love Yourself Completely

This may sound simple but for some people loving oneself doesn’t come naturally. Some people struggle with loving themselves and it manifests negatively in their lives. This is because they haven't arrived at a true acceptance of who they are. The first stage of loving yourself is accepting yourself. And when you accept yourself, you will be okay with who you are and you wont put up a ''front''.

Belief is crucial 

You Set Goals

It’s amazing how setting goals and achieving them builds confidence. Most people start the year setting goals but by mid- January almost 80% have given up. For the rest of the 20% that carry on pursuing their goals, the results are always outstanding especially when they are big scary and audacious. It’s a real boost to your confidence when you achieve those mega goals by taking action.

Take Daily Steps To Achieve Massive Goals

You Speak Up

When you become more confident, you find your voice. You find your purpose and you find your why.  You have no qualms about speaking on subjects that matter to you because you are not so bothered about what others think about you. You trust your own judgement. You trust your own beliefs. When you find your voice, you can speak up confidently to anyone (respectfully of course), irrespective of status.

You Control Your Emotions

When your confidence increases, you don’t take on every issue. When you get disappointed, you dont internalize it because you know that there are always lessons to be learned. In addition, you don’t always find the need to defend your stance because inside you know that you know that you know. Saying, ‘’Oh well’’ becomes your favourite line.

Relationships Matter. With my two favourite Yinkas

You Build Better Relationships

Relationships improve when you are confident because you know what is good for you. Your choices in who you surround yourself with becomes very important to you. You attract the right type of relationships for you. Being by yourself is also very important  because you learn to enjoy your own company. Toxic relationships are a thing of the past or for those that you have less control of like a ''relative'', you know how to handle them better.

Your Success Increases

When you believe in yourself and your abilities your success increases.  If you are a student, you will probably produce better results. Your teachers will notice. If you are an employee, the way you project yourself, will show your bosses that you know what you are doing and you will excel. If you are a business owner, you will attract more clients because you believe in what you are selling. Everyone enjoys being around a confident person.

Huge Benefits of Giving Back

Giving Back

There is nothing more rewarding and fulfilling than giving back. It’s such a game changer. Giving back helps you take the focus off yourself and helps you to make a difference in other people's lives. Its important to make others feel that they are somebody just as much as you are. When you value others like yourself and give back it is such a game changer and builds confidence. 

How about you? Has increasing your confidence changed your game? Were you ever limited by not having enough confidence? What did you do to overcome these limitations? Please share your story. Thanks for stopping by and remember to share with friends.